Teacher with ostomy

As a school teacher with an ostomy bag, my work is not difficult. I know a handful of people who work in a field that is tough for them because of their ostomy bag. I do not tell my students about my procedure because that is personal, plus I don’t think they need to know. I have had a few students that have had ostomy bags like me; I could tell from looking at them. I’m not saying that is a bad thing; I just feel bad for them. I remember what it was like as a young kid learning that my life was going to be changed, and I would have to carry around a bag of my waste everywhere I go. Having this ostomy bag does help in my field from time to time. 

When I was in sixth grade, I had to get an ostomy procedure, colostomy, to be more specific. It was very scary being told that my body has something wrong with it, and to fix it, they are going to put a new hole for waste to leave the body. I developed IBS as I entered the sixth grade. At first, I did not know what was going on, but with a lot of explaining, I slowly understood. Getting the procedure was very scary as I have never had anything worse than a cold. This was going to change my life; that’s all I knew. 

I never thought I would be a school teacher, let alone a person for those children to confide in about their ostomy, but here we are. I have told the guidance counselors that if any child is to come down there regarding their ostomy bag, they can come to me to talk. I am glad that I can help these children feel accepted and wanted. So many kids nowadays are nasty to one another for no reason. I’m so happy I did not grow up at such a time. Sure, I had to deal with bullies from time to time, but most of the time, other people would step in; I don’t see that anymore, and it breaks my heart. 

Being a teacher with an ostomy has a few advantages. One is that when it comes to grading papers, I do not need to take a break unless it is for a brain break. Also, when I am in class, I don’t need to worry about going to the bathroom unless I need to empty my pouch. I am also an outlet for children with an ostomy to come and talk to. I do this job mainly because I can help children not only in their education but in their lives as well. Sometimes talking to your parent can be challenging, so I’m glad I can be here for the kids. 

As a teacher with an ostomy, I don’t have tremendous pressure on my pouch, causing me pain every day like some people I know; I think I’m rather fortunate. As the years have gone by I, have met a few kids in our school who also have an ostomy, so I’m glad I can be here for them and relate to them about something. Being a teacher is rewarding, knowing that I am helping these kids in their education and everyday lives.